Attachment Style Quiz When my loved one is angry or hurting, I feel like: I need to make it better, that it’s somehow connected with me, and that things may never be ok again. This statement describes me best. I would like to be supportive, that I want to know if I can help, and I feel certain that with time all will be well with us. This statement describes me best. I feel like they are overly emotional and needy, that it has nothing to do with me, and that I don’t know if this relationship will last. This statement describes me best.